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Origins: humanity, the art and insight

Sermon on January 10 was about humanity. Philip was our artist. He is a senior at the high school and works with Circle of Friends. He’s a very soft-spoken young man.

I think there are two opposite and incorrect extremes in understanding humanity. The first is seeing us as the center of the universe, the focal point. Refusing to acknowledge that we are broken in some way. In essence, making ourselves our own god.

But I think the opposite extreme is also wrong – thinking that mankind is so totally depraved and wrong of being of any value at all. The mere fact we are made in the image of God gives every human value and dignity, regardless of station in life.

We are beautiful, deep, broken, repairable, redeemable creations.

There are some subtleties in these paintings that if you are in a hurry, you will miss. The first is how every color in the palette is used to make Adam and Eve. Philip said, “I really don’t know what color they were so I used them all.”

The second thing to notice is the serpent. He’s there. He’s not overbearing, he’s not dominant. He’s subtle, like a whisper. Can you find him? I love this depiction of the serpent. He’s not offensive or overbearing, you can miss him. But once you recognize him for what he really is, you’ll never miss him again.

Humanity 1

humanity 2

why church? next series..

Here’s a sneak peak at our next series….which starts on November 1.

The Sex Talk

This Sunday we’ll wrap up our I Want A New Marriage and we’re going to talk about sex. We’re also doing a Q & A session…so things could get a little interesting!!!

While I was at the Convention this week I was asked – don’t you get tired of preaching the anti-sex sermons?

I was kinda caught off guard a bit so I asked back, “Do you think God is anti-sex?”

So I think I’ll start off Sunday morning with a great big apology for speakers everywhere. I imagine if you put all the talks and sermons that have ever been done about sex in churches, it would be a small pile and it would mostly be negative. Like – God hates adultery, don’t fornicate, don’t have sex before marriage – which are all true statements but they hardly communicate the total heart of God on the topic of sex.

Personally, I’m faced with a very odd reality. How many years have I talked to teens and parents about sex? How many talks have I had with other people’s kids and not even flinch? And now I have a 6th grader and 4th grader living in my house that I’m responsible to teach about sex. (No, I didn’t forget about Cayden but she’s still fairly clueless on the whole idea. Camber is a completely different story…not going there right now.)

But I know that my kids are going to get information on sex. I can’t stop that. I can jump the curve to make sure they get the RIGHT information from the Designer and hope they trust HIS heart and intention on the matter. I can put them in front of the TRUTH about sex so that they have a chance for sex to be an awesome, wonderful, incredible, deepening, spiritual experience with their spouse instead of a wounding, damaging, destructive, harmful experience with lifelong consequences.

This Sunday is going to be very, very interesting.

Oneness or Isolation

Some quotes from Sunday’s service…

From Lynn’s reading:

My husband does not deserve my resentment, but my respect and my love. He may never come to church, I don’t know, but I am content to leave the future up to God.

God never meant for me to handle this in my own power anyway and trusting in Him is the only way I can take my marriage from the hard truth to the throne of amazing grace.

Lynn is an artist with words. Her vulnerability allows us to not only join her on her own journey of healing but it forces us to look closer at own attitudes – which is always a good thing. I’m challenged every time I hear a word from her. I’m thankful to God for her.

Every marriage is moving to one of two places – oneness or isolation. Marriage is never static.

The 50/50 plan of marriage never works. What’s 50% in a marriage anyway? I need the 100/100 plan.

There is no human that can satisfy you completely, make you complete. Only God can do that.

I’m both excited and frustrated with what is coming up this next week. Excited in that it’s a Q & A, Amy will be with me helping me answer the questions. It will be the first time we’ve ever done anything like that…it could be awesome…or it could totally go wheels off. Excited – we’ve already got some great questions to pick through.

Frustrated – there is a part of me that is going….man, there is still a lot more left that we could explore and unpack. Frustrated – not every marriage story has a happy ending and I hurt for those in the middle of the wreckage.

Off to prep for Sunday…

Message Prep

Perry Noble – a new, must read blog for me – has been posting a series on how he prepares a message. It mirrors so close to what we do at Western Hills, I’ll just link his whole post.

Community is a huge value for us at Western Hills – we stress it in our services, we lead our ministries in community, we even prepare messages this way. The Creative Team and I try to stay 6 months ahead of the curve in message prep. This gives us plenty of think time on set design, videos, dramas, interviews, testimonies, and other creative elements.

Here’s the added benefit of planning this way – it gives God time to speak to us. If you’re not running around 900 mph trying to figure out what you are going to do the next Sunday, it allows you to stop and listen. There have been weeks when we’ve changed because we just felt the Spirit was telling us to go a different direction. With a plan, it’s much easier to do.

Over the next couple of weeks, we’ll sit down and start planning 2010. Lots of prayer, lots of silence. We’ll start with the question – what is God already doing in our congregation that we need to join Him? Where is it that He wants to take us that we need to speak to? What do we (congregation) need to hear from Him?

Sermon Planning

Yesterday morning I sat down with two other ministry leaders to plan out our year in sermon series. I have a love-hate relationship with this process. I love the freedom it gives us down the road. That’s right – freedom. Planning this far in advance, frees the team up to do more than you can possibly imagine. It gives them think/plan time. Once this gets typed up and communicated, it’s going to help all of our ministries understand where we are going this year and how they can help drive us forward.

The hate part…it’s work. I don’t want to get ahead of God but on the other hand, I’m learning that He’s wired me to run this way. Plus we hold it loosely. It’s hard, gut-wrenching work and it can test a team to the brink – if you value having a team work on it. And I do. I’ve been here 4 months. Not a lot of time to build up the trust tank. But it is what it is…and at some point you’ve just got to risk it.

I’ll share later what exactly came out of the time but as I look back yesterday what was so valuable to me was the time we spent in prayer…seeking God’s face. Here are some of the snippets…

Father, I’m humbled that You’ve entrusted us with the feeding of your people. Give us wisdom in this task.

Spirit of God, work and lead beyond our expertise. Overcome our failings and shortcomings as leaders.

We are driven people in this room. Slow us down. To listen to your whispers.

Prevent anything from getting on the calendar that isn’t of you, from you.

We got a lot done yesterday. But the best thing was a team silent, pleading, listening, asking, knocking, seeking God. If we hadn’t got anything else done, it would have been worth the time.

Finishing A Series

Wrap up my first sermon series this weekend. I think we finally got the audio working on our website – www.whillschurch.org.

This series had brewing in my head for a long time. Trying to change our understanding of church from institution to movement. The church as a movement, a conspiracy of subterfuge is easy to see in scripture, almost impossible to see as current example.

Preaching sermons about it is also easy. Actually pulling it off? Remains to be seen. The good vibe of the first month will be followed by many questions we get to deal with the rest of the year.

Is what we are doing for the purpose of advancing God’s story or Western Hills? Would the community around us miss us if we dissappeared? Are we really trying to be more like Jesus or just more likable?

Are we more connected to Jesus or the church? Do we even know how to connect and stay connected to Jesus?

So many more questions than answers…


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